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December 15th, 2006
Name: Steve Chan
Subject: Upload so late!
Message: Sir,
Why your website upload so late recently?
Anyway, keep on your good job.
Steve
December 10th, 2006
Name: Cecilia
place: MACAU,CHINA
Subject: 澳門應不應該立法承認同性戀者結婚
Message: 本次調查的目的:
主要是為了了解社會各界人仕對於〝澳門是否能立法使同性戀者結婚變成合法〞此問題的看法和意見。本欄目屬於自由談論的話題,歡迎各界人仕在這裡留下您對此問題的看法和意見。由於本次的調查研究的問題較為特殊,所以如果閣下對此欄目所討論的問題有任何問題或者是有任何不清楚的地方,歡迎您通過電郵來告訴我。以助我更好的完善我的調查研究報告。謝謝!
調查人:陳嘉慧〈Cecilia〉
聯絡方法:cecilia1988513@hotmail.com
pa63273@umac.mo
如有任何疑問,歡迎您通過電郵來告訴我。謝謝!
我的作業,拜託一下!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
December 05th, 2006
Message: Stephen,
如果一個4歲小朋友因為曾經被家的工人欺負過, 可能因為以前工人恐嚇過她,要他不要告訴爸媽, 令到他到現在那工人走了也不敢跟爸爸媽媽說...和比較容易受驚!
如何令他好一點?
K
December 02nd, 2006
Name: Mandy
Subject: HiHi
Message: 阿sir,
你好!
我是你教院的學生,
來了這兒幾次,
第一次是看你的簡介,
看完後只有2個字-----超勁,
你哪有這麼多時間做這麼多事......
之後幾次是看交流營,
希望得到靈感做你的末?
今天突然想來留言,
你的學生都很厲害,
個個文筆都很好,
希望將來我也會有機會在這兒發表作品,
bye bye
December 02nd, 2006
place: HK
Subject: 自由行驚歎港警效率
Message: 自由行驚歎港警效率
警察救護員迅速地為傷者治療,國內網民稱這種效率「夠我們學習數十年的了」。
香港缺乏觀光景點,遊客獨沽一味購物,令「黃金周」逐漸失色,不過別具觸覺的自由行卻發現另類都市景觀。有人在旺角鬧市遇上途人受傷,目睹警察及救護員迅速到場為傷者急救的過程,更拍下整個救人過程在網上公開,內地網民大讚警察及救護員效率超高,在事發後 9 分鐘便把傷者送上救護車,內地難以匹敵:「香港警察怎麼都那麼瘦呢?他 們是不是生活條件很差,營養不良啊?真可憐,連飯都吃不好,還得工作。哪像內地的啊,一個個都挺著大肚子。」
內地人在旺角直擊途人頭破血流倒臥街頭,據他說不消一分鐘已有警員到場,兩分鐘後其他警員更帶同急救用品增援,再過三分鐘救護員抵達,迅速為傷者包紮後便抬他上救護車,這名目擊者說,事發在中午12時6分,傷者在 12 時 14 分 39
秒便被送上救護車,前後僅 9 分鐘,驚歎香港公務人員的效率。
港人對這種效率視為理所當然,內地網民卻非常羨慕,「夠國內的政府機關學習幾十年了。」kelvin2016 慨歎,「我們的公安忙著吃飯應酬收紅包,哪有空巡邏?」
網址:http://big5.xinhuanet.com/gate/big5/forum.xinhuanet.com/detail.jsp?id=35769328
November 28th, 2006
Name: K. Hung
Subject:FWD: Tears and health!
Message: Interesting piece of information
"There was a study done where a control group of 100 people were divided into two.
50 people watched a very funny, tears-of laughter type movie.
50 watched a very sad and tears of compassion type movie.
At the end of the sessions researchers collected the "happy tears" and the "sad tears" with eye droppers.
They found that "happy tears" are made up of brine...salt water and not a great deal else
However the "sad tears" were found to contain the very same chemicals and enzymes that are found in tumors, ulcers and other such lumps and bumps and sicknesses through out the body.
This test concluded that the body, when crying in sadness etc is literally flushing out all of the toxic-chemicals that accumulate and are a part of the sadness /heartache experience.
Therefore if one holds back those tears, those toxic-waters will find somewhere else to deposit themselves... .and prolonged lack-of-crying-release will guarantee that the body will accumulate a huge amount of internal pollution and toxicity that should have been released through the tears........is it any wonder that the eyes sting so much when we hold back our tears?"
LESSON FROM THE STUDY: CRY YOUR HEART OUT WHEN YOU ARE SAD, LONELY, ALONE, DEPRESSED, ETC.....
IT IS GOOD FOR YOUR HEALTH
November 28th, 2006
Name: LAM
Subject: FWD:何謂正氣..............
Message: 人生有很多可以做的事,也有很多不可以做的事。例如,禮義廉恥、忠孝仁愛信義和平等「四維八德」,都是可以做的事;殺盜淫妄、貪瞋邪見等「五戒十惡」,則不可以做。除此之外,一般生活裡,還有很多不可做之事,茲舉「八不可」,說明如下:
一、說話不可無忌:人每天都要講話,講話要有所顧忌,因為一句話講了出去,就再也收不回來,所以每句話要說出口之前,必須想到:這句話是傷人?還是助人呢?是有益社會呢?還是擾亂大眾呢?所謂「一言以興邦,一言以喪邦」,語言不可不慎。
二、利害不可不知:在人生的際遇裡,難免有一些對我不利,或者於我有利的事,我們都不可不知。如唐雎對信陵君說:「事有不可知者,有不可不知者;有不可忘者,有不可不忘者。」所謂不可不知者,如「人之憎我也,不可不知也;吾憎人也,不可得而知也;人之有德於我也,不可忘也;吾有德於人也,不可不忘也。」所以我們對於每日所遇到的各種利害關係,不可不知。
三、人情不可不顧:人與人之間,要靠情義連繫,如果對人無情無義,容易遭人詬病。因此,親戚朋友之間,有任何婚喪喜慶之事,應該有一些往來、表示,不可完全不顧情義。
四、財帛不可亂貪:錢財人人想要,所謂「見錢眼開」,人之常情,但是如果非法取得,也會惹禍上身,所以君子不取非份之財,志士不飲盜泉之水。
五、晨昏不可顛倒:有的人該睡覺的時候不睡,不該睡覺的時候倒頭大睡;「晨昏顛倒」不但有害身體健康,尤其與人往來共事,白天人家要辦事,你睡覺造成別人不便,日久失去因緣往來,終難成事。
六、輕重不可不明:凡事有輕有重,輕重不分,就是是非不明。更有甚者,本末倒置,以輕為重,以重為輕。有的人與人往來,把別人的事看得很重要,與自己有關的事,輕忽視之;也有的人,只看重自己的事,對別人的事毫不在意,如此都是輕重不分,必有麻煩。
七、感情不可亂愛:男女談情說愛,這是天經地義的事,應該尊重。但是如果愛得不合道德標準,愛得沒有方法,沒有秩序,沒有對等,也不能亂愛。愛情是雙方的事,一般說,男有情、女有意,才能「來電」,如果一廂情願,或對方已提出分手,甚至「使君有婦」、「名花有主」,如此因緣不具,都應知難而退。
八、心意不可亂想:人的心意,可以「上天入地」,時而也可以在五大洲來去。心念之快,乃至世間的正念邪思,都是從「心」出發,所以我們要把「心」管好。「心」如同一 國之 君,心王不正,則下面的子民就會胡作非為,所以「制心一處」,非常重要。
上述「八不可」是人生明理、安穩之道,如果明知「不可」而強為之,則難有善果,所以吾人對此八事,「不可」不慎也。
http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/jw!l3Rw5UmXEx94XDl0EMA54RDl/article?mid=6316
November 19th, 2006
Name: Jennifer
Subject: 偶然遇上的驚喜
Message: Hi Stephen:
晚上重看了你給我的「世紀龍門陣」,想起了你,所以到來看看。
在「世紀龍門陣」裡,看到黃毓民、陳耀南與鄭經翰為信仰討論了好一個晚上後,黃毓民為鄭經翰送上一首歌。黃雖然不是唱得很動聽,但有神同在的詩歌,本身已是感動的。
For sharing:
(Click to listen)
http://cnj.aram.com.hk/song/715.htm
November 01st, 2006
Name: 明蝶
Email: wongmingtip2006@yahoo.com.hk
Subject: 一閃而過
Message: 今天,在教院某地方見到你,你就在我眼前快步、一閃而過。我想不會是我看花眼了吧!覺得眼前的人「好熟口面」,一時回不過神來。你keep得好好,還是那樣子!^-^
REPLY -
明蝶:
是的,一轉眼又差不多四年了。
我的外觀,算是托賴,讓妳還認得出來。但心境則較落寞。
我在教院教書幾年了。我多數都在那裡。
妳又如何呢?不是在教書嗎?
Stephen
October 19th, 2006
Name: Mr. Dietrich, Brian Albert
place: canada
Email: dba@plk83.edu.hk
Subject: I have one questions
Message: Help me!
cheese 's cantonese...
Is it "沙田柚"
you are good chinese teather!
REPLY -
Mr. Dietrich, Brian Albert,
I am afraid you are NOT from Canada and neither English or Chinese/Cantonese is your mother tongue.
I don't know what you want to ask, and there are some basic grammatical mistakes in the words you left as well.
Your message is welcome, however!
Stephen
October 17th, 2006
Name: Roger
Subject: Bruce Lee at "The Green Hornet"!
Message: Bruce Lee
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cYpfDbsMDMk
The Green Hornet Movie Trailer
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jm_lRQp3hpU&mode=related&search=
October 16th, 2006
Name: Bonnie
Subject: FWD: 測你視力,蠻有趣的:
Message: 測你視力,蠻有趣的:
http://hk.science.museum/temp-exh/oie/chi/games.html
October 16th, 2006
Name: Ron
Subject: FWD: 世界變...
Message: 世界變...
http://media.flurl.com/mh/new_media3/2006/10/12/FLURL-dot-com-193089.wmv
October 16th, 2006
Name: Carl
Subject: 不義之戰!
Message: 前 幾 天 從 新 聞 資 料 ?到 , 為 時 三 年 半 的 伊
拉 克 戰 爭 , 至 今 已 導 至 65 萬 人 死 亡 。 霎 時 間 感
到 十 分 難 受 , 且 馬 上 聯 想 起 一 首 遺 忘 已 久 的
英 文 歌 "One Tin Soldier" 。
這 是 70 年 代 的 歌 曲 , 是 一 首 喻 意 深 長 的 反 戰 作
品 ; 可 惜 有 意 思 的 創 作 多 數 不 會 流 行 。
幸 好 在 Youtube 仍 找 得 到 , 而 且 插 圖 甚 佳 。
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qCCR2huE2m8&search=one%20tin%20soldiers
One Tin Soldier
Listen, children, to a story
That was written long ago,
About a kingdom on a mountain
And the valley-folk below.
On the mountain was a treasure
Buried deep beneath the stone,
And the valley-people swore
They'd have it for their very own.
Go ahead and hate your neighbor,
Go ahead and cheat a friend.
Do it in the name of Heaven,
You can justify it in the end.
There won't be any trumpets blowing
Come the judgement day,
On the bloody morning after....
One tin soldier rides away.
So the people of the valley
Sent a message up the hill,
Asking for the buried treasure,
Tons of gold for which they'd kill.
Came an answer from the kingdom,
"With our brothers we will share
All the secrets of our mountain,
All the riches buried there."
Go ahead and hate your neighbor,
Go ahead and cheat a friend.
Do it in the name of Heaven,
You can justify it in the end.
There won't be any trumpets blowing
Come the judgement day,
On the bloody morning after....
One tin soldier rides away.
Now the valley cried with anger,
"Mount your horses! Draw your sword!"
And they killed the mountain-people,
So they won their just reward.
Now they stood beside the treasure,
On the mountain, dark and red.
Turned the stone and looked beneath it...
"Peace on Earth" was all it said.
Go ahead and hate your neighbor,
Go ahead and cheat a friend.
Do it in the name of Heaven,
You can justify it in the end.
There won't be any trumpets blowing
Come the judgement day,
On the bloody morning after....
One tin soldier rides away.
Go ahead and hate your neighbor,
Go ahead and cheat a friend.
Do it in the name of Heaven,
You can justify it in the end.
There won't be any trumpets blowing
Come the judgement day,
On the bloody morning after....
One tin soldier rides away.
September 27th, 2006
Message: Stephen Sir,
看你手記,知你俾人搵笨!我都係呀!
冇野啦,俾心機啦。
Mani
September 18th, 2006
Message: Dear all,
FWD:小龍再現
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Ss1yMD6exE
Joo Won Io
September 15th, 2006
Name: Stephen
Subject: 禪是甚麼?
Message:
舊版《姿三四郎》電影中,有一幕姿三四郎因好勇、逞英雄犯了事。他的師父於是罰他跳落荷花池內,反省「自己所犯的毛病」。
一夜過去,姿三四郎自然是憤憤不平。然而,身體是身體,姿三四郎在清晨前的一刻終於沉沉睡去。
又隔了不久,一襲花香鳥語把姿三四郎弄醒。而姿三四郎打開眼睛時,亦為清晨的陽光所感動著。此時,姿三四郎師父的和尚朋友從內堂走出來,問姿三四郎的感覺如何?
姿三四郎說:很美、很舒服。原來清晨是有這些氣味的?
和尚問:那麼,你明白了麼?
姿三四郎說:明白甚麼?
和尚說:你師父昨晚著你浸在池中的原因。
姿三四郎說:有甚麼關係?
和尚說:昨晚是那個人浸在池中?
姿三四郎說:我。
和尚再說:那一個?
姿三四郎:……。是那個「憤怒、抱怨別人不明白」的自己。
和尚再淡淡然道:那剛才失聲叫美的人是誰?
姿三四郎祇笑不語。似乎明白了一些生命、生活的東西!
(以上根據電影《姿三四郎》、《禪與精神分析》及《李小龍思想解碼》的部分章節改編而成。)
September 15th, 2006
Message: Hello Stephen,
心理諮商師證書課程主要包括什麼內容, 對象主要是什麼人?
出路如何? 請告之一二, 謝謝!!
流星雨
REPLY -
流星雨君:
Please just leave Dr. Roger Lo a message at rogerlo@born.com.hk
, and he will try to answer you then!
Stephen
September 13th, 2006
Message: Hi,
A friend emailed me 2 short stories. Good stories!
They also illustrated some of my theories:
The first one illustrated the "Thinking outside the Black Dot"
concept in coaching and Body Mind Healing (I just conducted the Body Mind
Healing Module of NLP in last weekend).
The last 3 sentences of the second one are 3 metaphors. They also consist of 3
定向符號. (participants of the Mental Symbology Program, please spot them
out!)
小孩的心
有一位單身女子,剛搬了家,她發現隔壁住了一戶窮人家一個寡婦與兩個小孩子。有天晚上,那一帶忽然停了電,那位女子只好自己點起了蠟燭;沒一會兒,忽然聽到有人敲門,原來是隔壁鄰居的小孩子,只見他緊張地問:「阿姨,請問妳家有蠟燭嗎?」女子心想:「他們家竟窮到連蠟燭都沒有嗎?千萬別借他們,免得被他們依賴了!」
於是,對孩子吼了一聲說:「沒有!」正當她準備關上門時,那窮小孩展開關愛的笑容說:「我就知道妳家一定沒有!」說完,竟從懷裡拿出兩根蠟燭,說:「媽媽和我怕妳一個人住又沒有蠟燭,所以我帶兩根來送妳。」
這刻女子自責、感動得熱痊梐窗A將那小孩子緊緊地擁在裡。
求雨
有一個小鎮很久沒有下雨了,令當地農作物損失慘重,於是牧師把會眾集合起來,準備在教堂裡開一個祈求降雨的禱告會;會眾中有一個小女孩,因個子太小,幾乎沒有人看得到她,但她也來參加祈雨禱告會。就在這時侯,牧師注意到小女孩所帶來的東西,激動地在台上指著她說:「那位小妹妹很讓我感動!」於是會眾順著他手指的方向看了過去,牧師接著說:「我們今天來禱告祈求上帝降雨,可是整個會堂中,只有她一個人今天帶著雨傘!」
會眾仔細一看,果然,她的座位旁掛了一把紅色的小雨傘;這時大家沉靜了一下,緊接而來的,是一陣掌聲與略竷磏揪漪景。
有時我們不得不說:「小孩子其實一點都不小」
他(她)們其實很「大」!
他(她)們的愛心很大!
他(她) 們的信心很大!
Dr. Keith To
http://www.keithto.com
September 13th, 2006
Message: Stephen Sir,
How are you? I did sent you some messages but you didn't response....
Please check and reply!
Kandy
September 13th, 2006
Message: Stephen:
請問您有沒有宗教信仰呀
?
Christina
REPLY -
Christina,
我沒有既定的宗教歸向。但我相信宇宙有一個主宰和是有條理的。我小學是唸佛教學校,幾乎年年都拿佛學獎。我姨丈是一位牧,我有兩位姊姊亦是基督徒。而我年少時,亦花了一年時間和「耶證」去辯論。
Stephen
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July 24th, 2006
Name: Marina Mok
place: HKSAR
Email: marinamok@yahoo.com.hk
Subject: Enquiry!
Message: Stephen,
I was one of your lifeskills student some year before. Notice that some play therapy certificate will be organised by you. I would like to get more information on it.
Please reply!
Marina
REPLY -
Marina,
Yes. Some programmes are coming very soon. For further informationm please pay attention to my dairy, and go to http://www.born.com.hk to check the class schedule and details!
Hope you will satisfy with my answer!
Stephen
Name: Dayna
place: HONG KONG
Email:daynaleung@hotmail.com
Subject:
Message: 是誰有全身麻醉牙醫資料???
Message: Dear all,
A stunning web site!
http://world.go2c.info/
Name: KFC Cheng
Subject: Pankun offical website
Message: Dear all,
Enjoy it -
https://www.pankun.jp/main.php
August 26th, 2006
Name: James
Subject: FWD: Funny Karate
Message: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=opPY...related&search=
Message: Stephen,
Do you hear about the America Institute of Applied Psychology, AIAP? Can you
tell me more about it?
Don
Name: kinky
place: china hk
Email: kinky24261556@yahoo.com.cn
Subject:
Message: 考試制度是評估學生的最佳方法?
(反方)的論點,輪句.謝謝
Message:
可以告訴我你的經驗嗎?你得到這麼多學歷,現在是不是已經很自在,很快樂滿足?
你有這麼多學問,是不是已經達到你的人生目標?看通了人生?
我直接問你問題,冒昧了,對不起.
史丹利
REPLY -
史丹利
人生每行一步,就會生出多些願望及可能。
在低處望矮出,覺得那個山很高,但上了那山後發現還有很多更高的山。
沒有在世的人能真正看通人生,但能看開、看化一些,則是事實。
Stephen
Name: Karen Hung
Subject: FW: May You Be Blessed
Message: Turn your sound on. Click below. Sit back, listen to the music and see the lovely pictures and great messages.
http://www.mayyoubeblessedmovie.com/
Name: Steve Kan
Subject: FWD:
Message: <蘋果日報>
催眠可改善牙醫恐懼症
【本報訊】很多人都怕看牙醫,一雙腳踏進牙醫診所就自動發軟,焦慮、冒汗甚至有牙醫恐懼症,德國牙醫協會指約5%至10%的牙科病人很怕看牙醫,除了極為牙痛,忍無可忍,否則拒絕求診,音樂及催眠均有助改善有關情況。
德新社昨日報道,德國牙醫協會會長Dietmar Osterreich指出,恐懼牙醫的病人,多數與以往求診時不愉快經驗有關,治療蛀牙的手術也可能引致病人壓力,典型對求診焦慮的症狀包括發抖、冒汗、面色轉青。
要減少病人的焦慮,可以播放輕音樂,轉移病人的注意力,其次是盡快為病人開始治療,病人也可以向牙醫說明以往不愉快的治療經驗,讓牙醫可以了解病人擔心及害怕甚麼治療程序。另外,催眠有助改善牙醫恐懼問題,最極端的情況病人要全身麻醉才可接受牙醫治療。
July 19th, 2006
Name: Lucy
place: HKG
Subject: FWD:
July 19th, 2006
Message: 18-7-06
FWD:
July 18th, 2006
Name: Frankie Lau
place: Hong Kong
Email: mail@frankie.hk
Subject: useful personal websit
Message: Hi, Stephen,
I am also one of the Keith To's Student.
I also try to build up my personal website as www.frankie.hk
. Please give me some advices.
Frankie
July 15th, 2006
Name:
July 15th, 2006
Message: Dear all,
Milton Erickson's Hypnosis Session
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wekHYANNWLs&search=milton%20erickson
Enjoy it!
Roger
July 12th, 2006
Name: Kitty
place: Hong Kong
Email: hokarkei@yahoo.com.hk
Subject: Social Sciences
Message:
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Kitty,
Cambridge, Warwick, Essex are all very good in Sociology!
Regards,
Stephen
July 07th, 2006
Message: FWD:
June 28th, 2006
Name: natalie
Email: natalie_milk27@yahoo.com.hk
Message:
June 28th, 2006
Message:Hi All,
Hope you will like this.... Copy from other newsgroup.
http://home.graffiti.net/eu30/7-miracle.htm
Amy
June 21st, 2006
Name: CY
place:
June 11th, 2006
Name: 43420
place:
June 7th, 2006
Message: Dear all,
June 07th, 2006
Message: FWD: [
May 31st, 2006
Name: bobo
place: hongkong
Email: shortboatkwong@yahoo.com.hk
Subject:
May 29th, 2006br>
Name: Leung yin fan (YUKIE)
place: hongkong
Email: cute0725@hotmail.com
Subject:
May 26th, 2006
Name: wedding bands
Email: wedding-bands1969@yahoo.com
Message:
Gerard K. Nerney sued K-Mart claiming they used his middle initial without his authorization wedding bands http://www.natalia-diamonds.com/Wedding-Bands/Wedding-Rings.aspx
May 25th, 2006
Message: Bruce Lee animation
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZMMG_4JTbj4&search=bruce%20lee%20redux
Roger
April 25th, 2006
Message: FWD:
April 25th, 2006
Name: maggie
place: hongkong
Email: chenghoitung2004@yahoo.com.hk
Subject:
April 06th, 2006
Name: Joe Fung
Message:
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http://www.aimtech.city.edu.hk/sat/index.htm
February 24th, 2006
Message: Hi,
A news about
February 24th, 2006
Message:
February 21st, 2006
Subject: A winner from 56th Berlin Movie Contest
Message: Hi friends,
I read this news today and inspired me.?It's not because the winner is from HK.?It's because his intents to minimise the "noise" in the movie.?He knows what's the main role in the movie.?While we want to help others, who or which part is the main core? It's not me.
http://www.mingpaonews.com/20060220/gba1h.htm
Cheers,
Freesom
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May,
Remember -
1. Love is blind;
2. Love has a expiry day if let it flow naturally;
3. Love has it's own rules, if you play this game, you have to obey all of them.
All the best for your love and romance!
Stephen
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May,
Sorry for my late reply. There is something wrong with my PC in last week. By
the way, could you please send you contact number or e-mail address to my stephen_kg@hotmail.com
account? And, let's us talk via the phone.
Regards,
Stephen
February 06th, 2006
Message: Dear all,
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Hung,
January 12th, 2006
Message:
January 12th, 2006
Message:
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Gigi,
January 11th, 2006
Message: FWD:
January 10th, 2006
Name:
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January 04th, 2006
Name: HUNG
Subject:
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Hung,
January 02nd, 2006
Subject: FWD: David Copperfield
Message: Dear all,
Surprise!
http://images2.jokaroo.net/videos/davidcopperfield.wmv
Regards,
Benny